Re: [Flightgear-devel] Leaving

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Hello Nia,

I want you to know my support.

As I have seen in my (long?) life, I have found the only possibly good 
reason to exclude someone, is when that person do not create damage not 
care enough about the others and the surrounding. (What in turn might 
also be temporary).

You, you are nothing like that. You have shown deep care and attention!

Of course, none of us is perfect. We all have flaws. I have flaws.
That is so much "human nature" that is wrong to expect goodness and 
excellence from others as base rule.
We would be way served way better placing our real appreciation on the 
good we manage to do here and then !

And these good here and then, you have done them and continue to do 
them.

Then,
there are 'others persons' who will, in due time, reach a better 'level 
of understanding' in life. No offence to them, that is the natural path. 
It is the way it should be.

May I advise you to base your decision on anything else than the effects 
of interaction with them ?

As far as I am concerned, I am not able to always express right or 
correctly my thoughts, but I will miss you if you leave.

Kindest Regards
Lawrence
'Woosh'

On 2026-02-08 23:02, Nia via Flightgear-devel wrote:
> Hey folks,
> 
> sadly I must say that I'm leaving this community behind, after another 
> attack on me cause I'm openly queer and stand by those values on the 
> forum today, and my attempts at getting a positive change in the 
> community failed, I'm leaving... I just don't feel safe here anymore.
> I locked my self out of the forum with no way to recover, left the 
> flightgear group on gitlab and will also set this mailing list up in a 
> way for me to be unable to respond to any of this anymore.
> I'm heart broken, but I must leave, it's the only way that keeps me 
> from repeated desires to self harm or commit suicide due to attacks on 
> me.
> I loved flightgear, I've sunken so much time, love and also money over 
> the past 9 years, it's been my main hobby, for some times my only 
> hobby.... I don't want to leave what I love but it just causes me too 
> much pain!
> 
> in deep sorrow,
> 
> Nia
> 
> 
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