Apply damping based on joint velocity for slider and hinge joints.
As a first shot, ramp up % damping force based on iteration number to achieve better than explicit-damping maximum damping limit.
A better approach might be designed based on a limiter on velocity change within a single update step.
reuploaded patch, cleaned up some codes in memory allocation in quickstep.cpp and gated damping in step.cpp.
Note damping does not work with step.cpp using Dantzig's algorithm.
Moved to http://bitbucket.org/odedevs/ode/issue/6/hinge-and-slider-joint-damping