#166 fix: OOB retry hang, credential name display, ESM __dirname, cloud_activity_command min(1), headless hint

[Anonymous]

Originally created by: kumaakh

Summary

• #164 OOB retry hangs after terminal close — pendingRequests/passwordWaiters cleaned up on all return paths; 2 regression tests added
• #165 OOB prompt shows credential name instead of member name — header changed to "Enter secure value for: X"
• #33 __dirname ESM incompatibility in install.ts — replaced with fileURLToPath/dirname shim
• #5 cloud_activity_command .min(1) blocks clearing the field — constraint removed from update-member.ts
• #106 Headless/SSH OOB fallback gives no actionable guidance — {{secure.NAME}} hint appended to both fallback messages in launchAuthTerminal

Closes [#164], [#165], [#33], [#5], [#106]

Test plan

• [ ] npm run build passes
• [ ] npm test passes (786 tests, 2 new regression tests for [#164])
• [ ] OOB retry works after closing terminal
• [ ] update_member(cloud_activity_command="") accepted without validation error
• [ ] Headless environment shows {{secure.NAME}} hint in fallback message

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[Anonymous]

Ticket changed by: kumaakh

• status: open --> closed