CUDA: Fix builds for older CCCL versions by ifdefing strided_iterator (#18964)
* CUDA: Fix builds for older CCCL versions by ifdefing strided_iterator
Strided iterator was added in [CCCL
3.1](https://github.com/NVIDIA/cccl/releases/tag/v3.1.0), which is packaged into
[CTK
13.1](https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/cuda-toolkit-release-notes/index.html#id5)
* Unindent as per code review request
macOS/iOS: - macOS Apple Silicon (arm64) - macOS Intel (x64) - iOS XCFramework
Linux: - Ubuntu x64 (CPU) - Ubuntu x64 (Vulkan) - Ubuntu s390x (CPU)
Windows: - Windows x64 (CPU) - Windows arm64 (CPU) - Windows x64 (CUDA 12) - CUDA 12.4 DLLs - Windows x64 (CUDA 13) - CUDA 13.1 DLLs - Windows x64 (Vulkan) - Windows x64 (SYCL) - Windows x64 (HIP)
openEuler: - openEuler x86 (310p) - openEuler x86 (910b, ACL Graph) - openEuler aarch64 (310p) - openEuler aarch64 (910b, ACL Graph)