Logged In: NO

before entering game on the computer who is the server click on start menu, click run, type cmd (or command if cmd wont work) type ipconfig when the black screen comes up, it should say somthing like this....

Ethernet adapter Local Area Connection:

Connection-specific DNS Suffix . :
IP Address. . . . . . . . . . . . : 192.168.1.104
Subnet Mask . . . . . . . . . . . : 255.255.255.0
Default Gateway . . . . . . . . . : 192.168.1.1

note your ip adress and typpe it in when you connect to server instead of "localhost"