#3 load database on startup of *apache itself*

1: Is it possible to load the database just once on startup of apache itself (not startup of an apache process - that is, an individual web page)? Then, each apache process could be directed to use that same database already in memory, saving time and memory, since the database won't need to be loaded each time. Right now the "load DB on startup" option seems to load it on the startup of every apache process.

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Yes, i already know that problem, it's memory hungry.
But today, I've no solution for that :(