the Jabber code is outdated, it registers as everybuddy, and
cannot login with DIGEST.
20030826T05:03:44 charlie@jabber.foo.com.au login fail
203.31.232.2 401 everybuddy
20030826T05:03:47 charlie@jabber.foo.com.au login fail
203.31.232.2 409 everybuddy
yet the client thinks that it is Connected.