Here is my Transmitter code:
#chip 16F684, 8 'mhz
#config  INTRC_OSC_NOCLKOUT, MCLRE=off, WDT=off
Ser_Init
dir portc.5 out '  5
main:
repeat 4
Xmit_Print ("s$s$")
Xmit_Print ("s$")
end repeat
wait 1 s
repeat 4
Xmit_Print ("t$t$")
Xmit_Print ("t$")
end repeat
goto main
Sub Ser_Init
#define baud 832 ;the us delay for 1200 baud rate  '104-9600
#define SerTxHigh Set portc.5 on
#define SerTxLow Set portc.5 off
SerTxhigh ;Initial RS232 idle state
end sub

sub XMIT_PRINT (PrintData$)
PrintLen = PrintData(0)
if PrintLen = 0 then exit sub
'Write Data
for SysPrintTemp = 1 to PrintLen
XMIT_RS232(PrintData(SysPrintTemp)) 
next
end sub

Sub XMIT_RS232(Xmit_Byte)#NR
SerTxLow ;Start bit
wait baud us
For cntr = 1 to 8
Rotate Xmit_Byte Right
If Status.C ON Then SerTxHigh
If Status.C Off Then SerTxLow
wait baud us
Next
SerTxHigh ;Stop bit
wait baud us
end sub

And here is one of the reciever codes:
#chip 12F683, 20 'mhz
#config XT, MCLRE=off, WDT=off',OSC=INTOSC

dim temp as byte
dir gpio.0 in
dir gpio.1 out
#define RecAHigh GPIO.0 off
#define RecALow GPIO.0 on
InitSer 1,r1200,1,8,1,none,invert
dim temp1 as byte
dim loc as byte
loc = 0
set gpio.1 on
wait 2 s
set gpio.1 off

main:
if loc = 0 then
     SerReceive 1, Temp
if temp <> 36 then loc = 1
end if

if loc = 1 then
   SerReceive 1, Temp1
if temp1 = 36 then
          if temp = 115 then
set gpio.1 on
        wait 250 ms
set gpio.1 off
  end if
         if temp = 123 then set gpio.1 on
if temp = 125 then set gpio.1 off
loc = 2
end if
end if
if loc = 2 then loc = 0
goto main

the problem is i send the command to turn on the output of the rx unit but it does not get it reliably? any ideas?