I am actually a PC tech for a living, and I just cannot get Chicken of the VNC to work for the life of me. Someone please make this work for me, and I will send you a reasonable donation or whatever. I need to be able to connect to a Mac from a Mac and configure settings for clients like I do on the PC.
You sound frustrated, so I guess you've tried to get something working.
What server are you using?
What have you tried on the client?
What didn't work?
You know: is the computer plugged in? Is it turned on? All that kinda thing.
What seems to be the problem?